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My Husband’s Still A Mystery To Me

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Michelle Brown
Apr 04, 2025
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Throughout the chapters of a long-term relationship or marriage, you can get lost trying to solve the mysteries a partner may still hold, even after decades of being together.

Fourteen years into my relationship with my husband, I’m still trying to figure out what makes him tick. Believe it or not, I’m still puzzled by how he reacts to certain situations and sees the world.

Of course, I know my husband to a significant degree. I’ve lived with him for over a decade. I know his likes, dislikes, behavior patterns, and, for the most part, how he feels about me.

However, some things remain a mystery.

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